A lot of escorts don’t/won’t see any gentleman under 25/30 because they’re considered to be rude or timewasters. I’ve always stated myself that I don’t mind seeing under 30′s, but sometimes you come across an individual that makes it difficult for you not to think those other escorts might have a point. I really don’t like  any form of discrimination. As long as you’re over the age of consent, or as long as you don’t have a dodgy ticker, you’re fine with me.

I had quite a young chap I’ll call “Colin”, somebody I’ve seen once before in fact, call me wanting to make a short booking. I’ve told him before that I don’t do many half hours, but that it would always be best to give me a call to see when I’m working, so I can accommodate him at the flat.

Last Monday night Colin called wanting to make a booking. I asked him if it was going to be for half an hour as I wasn’t sure when next I’d be at the flat. He said not to worry, he only wanted the half hour but he’d be bringing along a friend for another half an hour to make it up. I asked, “What do you mean, you’re bringing a friend?” He said, “A friend of mine wants to come along as well”. I said, “Hold on a minute. You haven’t even asked me if that’s okay, plus I’d need to speak to the person,”  “What’s the difference?”, he says. “You have sex with strangers for money, I’m just bringing another one along.” He obviously thought he was doing me a favour.

The idea was to “tag-team” me. They were going to drive over to the flat and one sit in his car outside whilst the other came up to see me. Then when the first one was done he’d go back down and the other one would come up. How discreet, not.

Whilst I tried to explain to Colin that it just doesn’t work like that, he hung up on me in mid-sentence. He later maintains that he’d run out of credit. Funny though, when I sent him a text to further explain myself it was immediately delivered. I have set my phone to let me know when a text message has been received, i.e. I can tell when a phone is switched off and when it’s switched on when I send a message, to those phone technophobes out there.

Anyway, a few minutes after receiving the text, he tried to call, but I didn’t answer. I thought, anybody with so little respect for me who also couldn’t see what he was proposing was just wrong, I really do not wish to see.

He has since called a few times along  with a few texts, including yesterday, this time with an apology. I’m not sure if it was my reaction to his proposition or if he’s actually had a think and realised he was wrong that prompted the apology. Or just the fact that he thought the easiest way to placate me was to apologise and still not realise what for. As much as I would like accept it, I’m afraid in this instance that’s not going to cut it.

It’s bad enough in the “outside world” that people think so little of escorts and what we do for a living, it’s even worse when a guy who comes to see you actually thinks so little of you himself.

The thing is, he probably really did think he was doing me a favour and thought it was okay for him to bring along a buddy without asking me first, or without me talking to the person. It’s difficult to entertain someone who thinks of you in this way. Or just plain doesn’t think.

As I said in my previous entry, last week was not a good week.